Saturday, August 7, 2021

Man vs Wild: an ‘emotion’al episode

Disclaimer: This article is not meant to offend/discriminate against any animal, and written with a hope that it may still take quite a few more years before any animal reads this and takes offense, and the writer will be long gone by then ;-)

The other day, I came across a picture of two kangaroos that had gone viral on internet. People randomly misinterpreted it as a reflection of unconditional love between the animals. Later to the utter dismay of many, Dr. Derek Spielman (a senior lecturer on veterinary pathology from the University of Sydney) pointed out that as opposed to that picture of love, it was rather a case of violence and shrewd instinct that is most commonly seen in the animal kingdom. 
The article is not the subject of discussion here, but what I am trying to reflect on is that as much as we do not like to believe this, it is a fact that emotions are barely seen among animals, albeit some basic emotions like anger, lust, love, jealousy. We often indulge ourselves to imagine animals rising to the level of humans by displaying acts of love or humans going down to the level of animals by displaying violence. Well, to be brutally honest, love is a very basic emotion and it can never be a measure of humanity. Love is found across many species of animals and is usually displayed by mothers for their offspring, although with some exceptions. If you ask me, love is more of an instinct than emotion. It is an inherent feeling to protect and care for another individual, regardless of the situation. A mother holding on to her baby to ensure protection is a very common picture among animals and sends out a strong message of love.

What we consider love between two unrelated individuals is most often lust, desire, or attraction, and still cannot be considered to be any different than what is seen among animals. What is extraordinary about humans though is loyalty and faithfulness with which a human commits to another through the rest of life, despite all other temptations. And this is precisely what makes us humans! Emotions like loyalty are influenced by some other complex emotions too, like empathy, guilt, and conscience. They all set a very high standard for the human race which is impossible to reach for any other creature on this earth. Humans display a wide range of emotions because of the higher complexity of our brains. And strangely, it is these emotions mixed with the intelligence that actually set us far apart from animals, in the course of evolution. 

While it is delightful to ponder on these coveted emotions that we humans are bestowed with, some of us indeed go down to a much lower level with acts of brutality and animosity. That definitely does not lower the standard of humanity as a whole but sets a good example of differential evolution within the race. The more complex emotions you possess, the less likely you are to act like that. Because you are a more evolved human than them. Remember, evolution is a continuous process but it does not apply to all individuals to the same extent. How your brain adapts to its nuances depends on numerous factors, but if you are more evolved than the rest, you would not give in to your basic emotions so easily. Complex emotions are a mere manifestation of intelligence. Without them, humanity would have perished by all means, with our petite body structure, and minimal physical strength. You might argue that emotions had no role in our civilization, other than weighing us down most of the time. Let me then point out the origin of the word ‘civilization’. Merriam-Webster describes civil as ‘of, relating to, or involving general public, their activities, needs or ways’. Our civilization began when humans started forming groups, understood the importance of standing by each other, and serving their needs. All these required empathy, compassion, and a hoard of sophisticated emotions. Famous anthropologist Margaret Mead once referred to a 15,000-year-old fractured human femur which was healed as the first sign of civilization, as opposed to hunting tools or religious stones. Because a healed femur bore stupendous evidence of a human helping another unable to walk or hunt for himself, tending to his needs, instead of abandoning him, - a rather unique trait in the wilderness. 
As Margaret Mead reflected in her famous quote- “Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.” If intelligence is our power, emotions are the means to channel it. As long as we direct them rightly, humans will keep surviving as the most powerful race on this planet.

Sunday, April 19, 2020

Life in a dire time


What if
One day we realize
The things that we preach
Of hope and happiness
Of dreams and wonder
Turn upside down
What if
The toddler next to us
Laughs at our shattered pride
And tells us to let them all slide
'Cause this world is not yours
And nothing is your own
What if
That day is today
And the toddler is you
And you're asked to live again
With hopes and dreams
But not the way that you've known

Saturday, August 19, 2017

None can be another you

Don’t wait to be won by this world
Make your own world
with that tinkle of your eyes and ardent smile,
Make your own world
with your flickering pride and implacable shine,
For none can be another you.

Be that whiff of the wind in a wistful summer
Be that rustle of water on the quiet mountain
Be the relentless river that marches on to a rowdy ocean
Raise your soul to be unabashed
For none can be another you.

Be the one who brightens the dark,
Be the one who enlivens the dead.
Be the one to cross the fear,
Be the one to break the silence.
For none can be another you.

Be bold, be enchanting
Be brave, be unwavering
Be the one you got to be,
For none can be another you.

Sunday, May 14, 2017

For those who walk away in the darkest hour-



Don't smile at me when the sky is clear
I see you look away when it's dark and blur
Don't be my friend only to cheer
Losing you was never my deepest fear
I'd rather fall a hundred times
Than to stand back up with you
If I know for that hundredth time
You were the one who turned me blue
You'll still have my back I promise
The day you face the wall
'Cause I never stood by you
Just to watch you fall...


Saturday, December 3, 2016


The sombreness of the night crept in
In my heart, I was limped
The moonlight looked mellow
Yet she glared at me
After the relentless clutters of the mind
died down a spiral path
The age-old emotions felt naive again
The voices inside felt stronger than ever

The path alone was a path forbidden ...

Sunday, September 25, 2016

Rites of a Martyr

Why’d you care what they mean to you
Why’d you care if they made it through
Why’d you care if they’re burnt alive
Why’d you care how their children thrive

How’d you see the world of a martyr
How’d you see that his heart’s on fire
How’d you see when his eyes glisten
How’d you see the blood stain

All you see is the war that broke
All you hear are some voices choke
How’d you ever know the loss they bear
How many lives are yet to suffer

A war is a war for two countries
Might be nothing for you and me
For as long as they guard our peace
And get killed as are meant to be.

Wednesday, September 7, 2016

Unnamed

Let them fall in love with you
Let them touch your life
Let them make you live
and not just survive...
Let love find a way
While you find your own peace
Not all scars fade away
Not all sins are meant to perish